Jim Carrey and Angelina Jolie may costar in comedy

[kasper]

Don't forget that there are a lot of girls who help kids out in Africa and all over the place. I can't say that I hate her, just because thats an extremely strong word... but shes very irritating to me and the thought of her ever getting involved with Jim sickens me to the core. Bluh. Personally, though, I think shes a utterly disgusting.

[lammy]

You shouldn't hate someone you don't know or anyone else for that matter it makes you mean-

[kasper]

lol exactly. Very mean. And I'm a nice person so that's why I don't hate her. I believe too strongly in certain things that go against hating anybody.

[lammy]

There' s just no logical explanation for hating someone you don't know and the same logic applies for LOVING someone that has no idea you exist or that you've ever seen.(just my opinion)

Once I thought I was going crazy when I confess my LOVE for someone that I didn't know- but then I realized it was my mind playing tricks on me-LOL!!

[quirky]

I wonder if there's such a thing as true love often.

I saw an interview with Brad Pitt last night that was really impressive.

[fluffy]

I think there's such a thing as a soulmate....sometimes it's the most unlikely person too........sometimes you can be so alike as to fight like cat and dog yet the bond is weirdly unbreakable......That's my parents relationship......It's a love /hate thing but it keeps it very alive and real for them..........and it's definitely what i'm drawn to.....

But the romantic notion of true love i think is nonsense......i would be bored senseless with someone who doted on me the whole time....i like to give a bloke a run for his money..........not silly mind games though......but a bit of mental sparring is healthy i reckon........But i'm not a ball- breaking feminist either.......i like to be wined and dined too....it's just that afterwards i may tickle you until your eyes pop out!!....lol
Ah......i live in hope.....sigh....


and as for the Hate emotion..........it'll get you in the end.....you've gotta 'let it be'..........let it wash over you but don't hate anyone, pity them.......misunderstand them.....dislike them ....but don't HATE......especially those you don't even know..............for all you know they could be the sweetest of misunderstood souls...... ...and you'll feel really bad if they are.......

Fluffy

[lammy]

I know my soul mate is out there somewhere but where I don't know cause if I did I wouldn't be searching for him-

[quirky]

But the romantic notion of true love i think is nonsense......i would be bored senseless with someone who doted on me the whole time....i like to give a bloke a run for his money..........not silly mind games though......but a bit of mental sparring is healthy i reckon........But i'm not a ball- breaking feminist either.......i like to be wined and dined too....it's just that afterwards i may tickle you until your eyes pop out!!....lol
Ah......i live in hope.....sigh....

I kind of agree. I think that as long as I keep longing for the idea of one soul in two bodies, I'm bound to live a life of disappointment. The thought makes me cry.

[fluffy]

well, as you know i've been doing a lot of soul searching and i've come to the conclusion that marriage is about 2 friends (who obviously desire one another etc.............).but ultimately it's about two really, really close friends who adore being together...accept the bad and the good and are there!...........
And thats why some folk stay married so long because they value the support and friendship above all other....................the sex will have it's highs and it's lows but the closeness will bind them together..............
I'm not sure a lot of marriages are based on friendship........they'll be based on hot sex or lust or infatuation but when they go through the low points they realise they don't even like their partners..........because they were never really friends in the first place! So it's gotta be a mix of lust and friendship i reckon.............
And it must be murder in Hollywood with all those beautiful people around...........perhaps Goldie Hawn is right when she says she 'turns the other cheek' to Kurt's infidelities.......at the end of their day the friendship bond is stronger than the indiscretion.........

it's just a thought........

fluffy

[lammy]

I'm just happy that Jim is alive and if that is as close as I get to Jim-then so be it-

[quirky]

perhaps Goldie Hawn is right when she says she 'turns the other cheek' to Kurt's infidelities

Really? I don't think that's something I could do. I want the fairy tale.

I understand the "for better for worse" and am one of the most patient people you could meet....but infidelity?

No uh uh uh non non!! Don't go there!

[lammy]

If a man cheats that means the bond between the two is lost and if the man I am with goes for another one to sleep with them then that means my own self is not good for him-I'd tell him to take a hike!!



Because I'm worth being faithful to-

[fluffy]

Ordinarily i might agree with you..........but in Hollywood i don't think it's possible..........i really don't.........
I guess if you get 'the man' you've got to make compromises.......

fluffy

[Filomena]

If you are truly in love with someone, you have to forgive them no matter what they do. That's what love is about. But if someone continues to make the same mistake over and over again, then there's something wrong. Imagine how painful it would be if the person you love was unfaithful?

I guess I"m old fashioned, but when I think of myself with my soul mate, I wouldn't want to be with any other man. I would want to be with that person all the time. Commitment, fidelity, love - they are one and the same. So if my soul mate doesn't believe in that, then he can't be in love with me.

Sometimes I look at celebrities in Hollywood and I want to slap them. The men especially, because it seems like they want the best of both worlds. They want to have a life-long partner, but they also want to live in the fast lane. Make up your minds, boys! Time to grow up at some point in your life.

If Goldie Hawn looks the other cheek at Kurt's infidelities, is she truly in love with him? If he makes a mistake once, then you have to forgive him. But if this is his philosophy of life, and you're fine knowing he's being intimate with someone else, I guess there's no passion in the relationship. Isn't she in a lot of pain, knowing he's doing that? Maybe they're together because it's convenient. Or she thinks of him as a good friend.

I wonder, would Kurt turn the other cheek if she was unfaithful? If yes, what's the point of the relationship? I don't get it. Life is confusing, isn't it? Somebody go get me a Twix bar.

[fluffy]

i guess it's the masochistic streak in me coming out ...........lol..........i think you can love and forgive almost anything..........
i say almost because there's only so much shit you can take.............but i don't mean in a doormat kinda way either..........
Will Smith's marriage is apparently an open marriage.............i'm not sure if they work but they have obviously decided that the whole is greater than the sum of the two parts..........and the marriage is worth saving despite misdemeanors.................
I think The romantic ideal of eternal love and fidelity is wonderful, but it's rare amongst the famous..............
Personally i've never been unfaithful in my life..........it's not in my nature and boyfriends to my knowledge, haven't strayed.......but hey!....shit happens....as long as it's not flaunted under my nose!................i'm a realist i guess.......

Fluffy